Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)
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You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
Cause it wasn’t yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
You set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin’
When it wasn’t yours
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
I gave my all and they all know it
You tore me down and now it’s showing
In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus-
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
And now the chapter is closed and done
And now it’s goodbye
It’s goodbye for us
Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me. © 2019 Interscope Records

  • SelenaGomezVEVO

    This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

    • blakturno


    • Celebrity Times
      Celebrity Times


    • Inan Saleh Bsa
      Inan Saleh Bsa


    • Sude E.
      Sude E.

      We love you girl

    • Carol yazmin Castillo Garcia
      Carol yazmin Castillo Garcia


  • لميس علاء
    لميس علاء


  • Daniiel 98
    Daniiel 98

    camera ip 11?vidioclips

  • ᴘᴜᴄᴄᴀ


  • Nancy Quintero
    Nancy Quintero

    You Are Wonderful #SelenaGomez Regards From Panama.

  • Aidah Alsmry
    Aidah Alsmry


  • Aidah Alsmry
    Aidah Alsmry


  • Tee Fp
    Tee Fp

    Beautiful song

  • Jorge Almeida
    Jorge Almeida

    So amazing

  • cristy :3
    cristy :3

    Se que tal vez no entiendas español, Pero quiero agradecerte por haber escrito y haber cantado esta canción , Significa mucho para mi , Ya que me siento identificada con la canción , Pase por momentos difíciles y ahora que la escucho me siento más fuerte y comprendí que primero debo amarme a mi , Para volver a amar. Me siento nueva ❤ Gracias Selena gomez ❤✨🌈

  • Nelly Maria
    Nelly Maria


  • Leslie Lechuga
    Leslie Lechuga

    Escucho esta cancion con mis audifonos y a todo volumen, se entristece mi alma pero miro al cielo, sonrio, y siento una paz interior increíble. Gracias.

  • Merary Castillo
    Merary Castillo

    I love this song I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years until I said no more and I closed that chapter and started focusing on my self and loving my self and out of no where I met this amazing human being that now is my husband. we have been together 3 years and we are still going strong. Never give up on yourself and never give up on love

  • 20cher09

    Cooks Do Not get Anything!!!

  • 20cher09

    Campbells Do Not get Anything!!!

  • Ceez Jayzz
    Ceez Jayzz

    ❤️💯🔥 Breeana Lynn Campbell ❤️ Jerome Sonny Cook💖

  • Carlton Doorman
    Carlton Doorman

    I love nobody Just myself, my body People love me Because I’m beautiful, have money They like my smile, my teeth Whiter than an angel, I don’t tease Never I will know what is real Love For that we must not to be egoistic, but it my choice This world doesn’t give me a chance To be real, to see the live like a dance We are animal, nothing more If we don’t show how we are good we are bore I can’t lose my soul in your eyes Because I’m afraid to what it implies I prefer focus on money Its normal we are programmed by our country To Love it and nothing else Look who is sit on the big chair Mirror of us Take a bus Run away, but you will find same No love, even here, don’t came Music in my head shake what I am Better to think to eat, to spam Looking everywhere and all is empty What I feel so unhappy To see this World without Love Because No answer, no though It’s bad to follow Looking me in mirror Don’t make me who we are I’m conscious I can’t change nothing For that we need to have no sin Who I am? A singer, actress, who care Just a human with her scare Even if I run in Lamborghini or a Jet The Love is away from me, I’m upset Never I will find it Even if I search for the eternity, even if I make 1000 hits Just what I can do is to buy all With my money, even if it’s a wall I can’t destroy it, it’s my life I know I can’t survive When I will older, I will look my life And like majority of humans no Love, no fire Something big, but empty Sadly We can believe in God Thinking its Love

  • Mimato Nimiana
    Mimato Nimiana

    It's hard to love someone a long time and wish to be yours but at the end it will never be yours.... She will live all her life hidden this pain and smile in front of everyone as if nothing happened and saying it's ok Be strong selena ♡♡

  • Acikk .566
    Acikk .566

    I know everybody dont know about this, This music videos was made by Iphone 11. Me:Yoo WTF thats so crazy tho.

  • Anita Ramlal-Fraser
    Anita Ramlal-Fraser

    Ilove this song😢

  • Faustin Kagesera
    Faustin Kagesera

    I love the song selena gomez it a good song

  • mariah gomez
    mariah gomez

  • Andrew Andy
    Andrew Andy

    Hi Selena! Congrats on you're song, and I really loved you're song. also you are amazing grace, and God Blessed of our hearts. Love You Selena Gomez.

  • Angela Trigo
    Angela Trigo

    Dont worry selena we are still here for you Please dont be sad

  • Roxann Rutherford
    Roxann Rutherford

    you have done your best lena, what can you do but be patient, you are a role model to most ppl out there. You should understand that you make us feel like we have other things to live for. you inspire us to get up after we have fallen. I AM PROUD OF YOU.

  • Ghun Ghun Media
    Ghun Ghun Media

    Girl vs boy

  • LatinoMex01

    She is Half Mexican and Half Italian the prefect mix also Humble in every way know that! Gringos :) i know you dont like it when people say it but Oh welllll idiotas know that White woman prefer us Hispanics more then any other ethnicity,race this is an example and because of everything we do Work,Love and are Blessed Viva los Latinos por todo el Mundo LatinoAmerica es mas Grande que todo el Mundo pero Dios es el Rey de Reyes el quien es nos hizo aqui en esta tierra btw I Hope Selena ur seeing this message someway somehow I still hope you can still make Amends,Peace and be friends or Best friends still with Demi Lovato because one of the Greatest things we have as human beings is Forgiveness to be able to do that never lose that Okay Amen.

  • Ilsa Mughal
    Ilsa Mughal

    Record of the year - Lose you to love me_ Selena Gomez

  • Buse Asel
    Buse Asel

    2020 Turkey 🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷

  • Jaida Franzen
    Jaida Franzen

    Sorry selena, I also sang of key in ur chorus

  • JLW Poetry Knight
    JLW Poetry Knight

  • Leonie - Lena
    Leonie - Lena

    Love the song

  • Krispy Dee
    Krispy Dee

    <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="92">1:32</a> the harmoniessss 😍😍😍

  • Anna Emelyanova
    Anna Emelyanova

    Let’s just believe for a moment that true mutual love exist

  • Hemambika Pilli
    Hemambika Pilli

    It's better to be alone than being with people who always makes you feel alone 🙂🙂

  • Hemambika Pilli
    Hemambika Pilli

    After watching this song and hearing all this comments🙄🙄.... I think so it's better to be single😐😐😐

  • Ольга Чугунова
    Ольга Чугунова

    Девушки, любите себя

  • Masha Mostofi
    Masha Mostofi

    Deseves a grammy atleast

  • Natural Sounds
    Natural Sounds

    Videos para relajarte

  • Ariana Rawat
    Ariana Rawat

    People need to stop bringing Justin's name in the comments they both moved on. I am not a Justin fan but imagine how hurt Hailey must whenever she sees people saying she is not beautiful and that 'selena is better'. I MEAN JUST STOP.

  • Kaveri Bhalerao
    Kaveri Bhalerao

    I feel like this is the best song of Selena Gomez.

  • For ever I am here
    For ever I am here

    Some people are just trying to make the queen Selena down but they can't cuz she the best as a person and as a singer no one can be like her she try to make people feel hope and people try to hurt her fuck them all selenaaaa ❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😘😘

  • Nora Kammou
    Nora Kammou

    the best song i'v ever heard in my life, it's soooo deep.

  • Nancy Anang
    Nancy Anang

    This song is emotional, where is Justin

  • Nancy Anang
    Nancy Anang

    This song is emotional, where is Justin

    • Tejeshwar Yadav
      Tejeshwar Yadav

      Enjoying life with his wife

  • Daniela Leone
    Daniela Leone


  • rayane rano
    rayane rano

    You are priceless don’t need anyone selena this is the best song of the year

  • Ortal Miunov
    Ortal Miunov

    Amazing still hair 2020

  • AlwaysThere x3
    AlwaysThere x3

    This song has the most real FACTS 💯

  • Hope Kholo
    Hope Kholo

    I am u biggest fan Selena cause you are not afraid to express your emotions. And you are inspire others.

  • Ines Rosa
    Ines Rosa

    This song is so good! But also have a history and a message so true and so important 👑

  • Ines Rosa
    Ines Rosa

    This song have to be nominated on Grammy for “song of the year” and must to win!!!

  • Tanya Agarwal
    Tanya Agarwal

    Beautiful ❤❤❤

  • mamino algerie
    mamino algerie

    There is no doubt that Justin hears this song and cries with burning💔

    • Diana

      Lmao Justin move on

    • Tejeshwar Yadav
      Tejeshwar Yadav

      Lmao keep dreaming

  • Keremet Kalygulova
    Keremet Kalygulova



    Who is better? Like: *Selena Gomez* Comment: *Justin Bieber*

    • becky manjarres
      becky manjarres

      Shut up dawg

    • Biscuit Lol
      Biscuit Lol

      stfu and leave comments like this needs bo be banned

    • Mayra Gupta
      Mayra Gupta

      @danone morango You're comment is so true . I started laughing so hard

    • Ariana Rawat
      Ariana Rawat


    • Aden P
      Aden P

      Why is this still a comment it’s obviously Selena or else you shouldn’t be here listening to her and let’s stop complaining about them to quote Selena “the chapter is closed and done, and now it’s goodbye it’s goodbye for us” PERIODT

  • 김혁진

    자기 자신보다 그를 너무 사랑했었고, 오직 그것만이 삶의 이유였던 셀레나 삶의 전부인줄 알았던 그가 떠나고 나서, 자신을 되찾아가는 것 같아 너무 아프지만 애틋하고, 쓸쓸하지만 벅차올라요.

  • AllYellowJosh

    Selena Gomez Has Officially Surpassed Beyoncé On Spotify And Is Now The 6th Female Artist In HISTORY To Gather Over 12 BILLION Streams On Spotify, Congratulations !!!!!!

  • Ardi Walkers
    Ardi Walkers

    Now chapter Closed and Done ... #GoodBye

  • bad blood
    bad blood

    Trust me now you're winner

  • 제제

    이 뮤비속 셀레나의 표정은 정말 미련 하나없이 후련해 보이는 게 온전히 느껴진다 이제는 스스로를 더 사랑하게 된 셀레나가 상처받지 말고 예쁜 사랑만 했으면

  • Valentyne Crazy Player
    Valentyne Crazy Player

    The Selenators should be ashamed for letting this and "Look at her now" go SO fast out of style. Now the fu**in "Yummy" has more views than this. What a disappointment >:( PS. And most views of "Yoummy" must be bought or autogenerated with Authentichits bots I would bet.

    • Diana

      @Tejeshwar Yadav Beliebers never LOSE😘 we are strong lmao

    • Tejeshwar Yadav
      Tejeshwar Yadav

      Maybe if you stream her trash songs and stop bringing Justin's name things would be different

  • Yenny Sudjana
    Yenny Sudjana

    Sy seneng lagu lagu ny

  • алексей корчажников
    алексей корчажников

    похожа на открытие Альфа -центавра...но селена кинула бибера , а теперь бессится бибер будет летать вокруг Солнце ...а ты малышка ....

  • Victor Vieira
    Victor Vieira

    selenaa her voice is amazing

  • وردة ديسمبر
    وردة ديسمبر

    I love you selena

  • Brandon Guevara
    Brandon Guevara

    Who Sees It In Quarantine❤️🍃

  • Rj Robles
    Rj Robles

    This song deserves everything this is just such a beautiful song that you must of worked hard on and I feel the hurt in the song

  • Elias Stadler
    Elias Stadler


  • Elias Stadler
    Elias Stadler

    Amo demais essa música 🖤

  • Elias Stadler
    Elias Stadler

    Selena Gomez maravilhosa 💕

  • Elias Stadler
    Elias Stadler

    Selena Gomez linda 💖

  • monique cowart
    monique cowart

    I felt this song I'm a ♋ just like her I needed to lose ppl to love me.

  • edith Lopez
    edith Lopez


  • HR VY
    HR VY


  • Catriani L.V.Rumbiak
    Catriani L.V.Rumbiak

    I love u Selena 🌌,i listen this song and maybe what i think about ur condition right know was the fact 😌keep going 🙏 forget everything who was always make u cheer down 💢 ♥️U

  • Lilian Tan
    Lilian Tan

    Lose her to love yourself, hell yeah!!!

  • Anita

    Such a beautiful song...❤🥺

  • myamoe thawthaw
    myamoe thawthaw

    From “the heart wants what it’s wants” to “lose you to love me”. So proud of the new Selena and I’ve never even been in a relationship.

  • GachaGamerGirl 290
    GachaGamerGirl 290

    I think is for Bieber (Justin Bieber)